Just a short note of encouragement to all, Valentines Day doesn't have to suck! I know a ridiculous amount of people, male and female who get annoyed, bitter, angry, frustrated sad, depressed etc. because they 'have no one' on Valentines' day. Of course this is a two-tiered post for the purpose of addressing both types- the single and the not so single.
♫All the Single Ladies!♪ (and dudes)
Valentines day, if you are single, can be brutal. People on this day of Love are parading themselves about, holding hands, being all cutesy, and ogling one another and every store you enter looks like Valentines just threw up. Everything is pink or red and the word LOVE seems to be all encompassing. Guess what? It's ok to be a little perturbed. It's ok to be a little resentful and whatever, but keep in mind, as was fore mentioned, Valentines is a Day of Love. It doesn't have to be the love of a significant romantic other, it's just love in general. Sure the focus is on those of the exclusive long relationship type, but that isn't all it's about. Remember how in elementary we all made cute Valentine's day boxes and everyone had to bring Valentines for EVERYONE? See it's not all about significant others. Show your parents, your siblings, your friends and those whom you appreciate, how much you actually do appreciate all they do for you, and all they do in general. Valentines' day isn't made to make anyone feel bad or low, it 's function is quite the contrary. Try not to be upset, and just make the best of this day! Don't feel bad about yourself because you aren't with someone, be glad you are single and have no one to answer to! ♪ All my single ladies- get yo hands up!♫
♪Love Love Love I want your Love♫
Valentines day is said to be easier if you are in a relationship,or in the process of getting into a relationship. You have someone to focus all your lovin on. The day is all about them, and together you can hopefully bask in the day of love as we so wonderfully call it. Hopefullly this day will serve as a call to remembrance for those who have been in a relationship for a while! While Valentines in meant as a special day to channel all of your affections, it's with increasing importance that one remembers the other 364 days of the year. If you have a loved one, you have a responsibility. Show them every single day how much you care for them. Whether you tell them, write it to them show them in many many ways- it doesn't really matter. Valentines day is simply a day for you to ponder a little more, and perhaps recognize how lucky you are. If you fall into this category, you have something that most single people in the entire world envy. You have something that is so special and fragile. Don't forget! People and relationships are the reason that we all exist.
Moral of the story is: Valentines day is great. It's overall purpose is to show people our love and appreciation. Don't be mad get glad. It will be great, just alter your attitude, it's just another day. Whether you are single or taken, there are people that love you no matter what and you always will 'have someone'. Have a delightful Valentines :)
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Oh my Hai Hai :) I love you just so you know. For the record, my "singles awareness days" have always been more fun than my "Valentines Day". Meaning the ones where I wasn't in a relationship were SO much better! They were care free and relaxed, and didn't end with a break up... :)
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