♥♥♥♥ Aww wuv twu wuv ♥♥♥♥

So there is this big day coming up that many of us are aware of. Good ol Presidents day! I kid i kid. Valentines day! ♥

Just a short note of encouragement to all, Valentines Day doesn't have to suck! I know a ridiculous amount of people, male and female who get annoyed, bitter, angry, frustrated sad, depressed etc. because they 'have no one' on Valentines' day. Of course this is a two-tiered post for the purpose of addressing both types- the single and the not so single.


♫All the Single Ladies!♪ (and dudes)

Valentines day, if you are single, can be brutal. People on this day of Love are parading themselves about, holding hands, being all cutesy, and ogling one another and every store you enter looks like Valentines just threw up. Everything is pink or red and the word LOVE seems to be all encompassing. Guess what? It's ok to be a little perturbed. It's ok to be a little resentful and whatever, but keep in mind, as was fore mentioned, Valentines is a Day of Love. It doesn't have to be the love of a significant romantic other, it's just love in general. Sure the focus is on those of the exclusive long relationship type, but that isn't all it's about. Remember how in elementary we all made cute Valentine's day boxes and everyone had to bring Valentines for EVERYONE? See it's not all about significant others. Show your parents, your siblings, your friends and those whom you appreciate, how much you actually do appreciate all they do for you, and all they do in general. Valentines' day isn't made to make anyone feel bad or low, it 's function is quite the contrary. Try not to be upset, and just make the best of this day! Don't feel bad about yourself because you aren't with someone, be glad you are single and have no one to answer to! ♪ All my single ladies- get yo hands up!♫



♪Love Love Love I want your Love♫

Valentines day is said to be easier if you are in a relationship,or in the process of getting into a relationship. You have someone to focus all your lovin on. The day is all about them, and together you can hopefully bask in the day of love as we so wonderfully call it. Hopefullly this day will serve as a call to remembrance for those who have been in a relationship for a while! While Valentines in meant as a special day to channel all of your affections, it's with increasing importance that one remembers the other 364 days of the year. If you have a loved one, you have a responsibility. Show them every single day how much you care for them. Whether you tell them, write it to them show them in many many ways- it doesn't really matter. Valentines day is simply a day for you to ponder a little more, and perhaps recognize how lucky you are. If you fall into this category, you have something that most single people in the entire world envy. You have something that is so special and fragile. Don't forget! People and relationships are the reason that we all exist.

Moral of the story is: Valentines day is great. It's overall purpose is to show people our love and appreciation. Don't be mad get glad. It will be great, just alter your attitude, it's just another day. Whether you are single or taken, there are people that love you no matter what and you always will 'have someone'. Have a delightful Valentines :)
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I don't care what you say, i'mma be nice.

These last two weeks of this semester have been great. Finally I'm beginning to make my life as random as I am. It isn't all me, so I can't give myself all of the credit- and keep in mind that not everything that is deemed exciting is necessarily positive. I have had to go to Vegas twice, end up in St. George about 3 times a week and have random awesome bruises and pictures to show for it!


If one would recall my last post, we discussed doing things because WE CAN. I figured i have to be the biggest advocate for this type of behavior so i had better partake of this crazy awesomeness I like to call life. Remember that these things don't have to be enormous and grand gestures or crazy ridiculous things that could potentially hurt someone or yourself. To some having a hand stand constitutes something crazy that they can do just because, well they can! Some it will take a little more, like lighting off M80's or streaking across a football field while the game is going. Some of us are more adrenaline junkies than others :)

This isn't the greatest segway but it i will do. Being yourself is so important to your own personal happiness. If you can't be yourself, life becomes a lot less fun and interesting. Don't be afraid to be you. Don't alter your behavior because it will help other people to swallow the whole of you more easily. You know it's ok to be glad or look happy when socially or situationally you 'shouldn't' be. It's ok to not be thrilled about something that most find thrilling. Remember to act out your own emotions, you aren't in someone else's play so don't act that way. The catch is to make sure that someone you really l.o.v.e or care for isn't reaping the negative consequences of your actions. Consider others and make sure that just because you want to do something stupid, that they won't feel the repercussions of it. I have to work on this all the time, i'm definitely not the best example of this but i think it's important enough that someone mention it.


Now to the fun part. I like experiencing things. I might be a slight adrenaline junkie as was fore mentioned. So anyway, i feel it altogether humorous to share this with you all.......
yup. that's me :) Long story short, I had a warrant out for two things, seatbelt ticket, which is bogus, and another traffic violation in Midvale city. The funny thing was that I had taken care of the Midvale city ticket, and it should not have still been on my record. I got handcuffed and taken to JAIL. The bookies thought i was just too sweet to be in jail, so they didn't even put me in a cell.

Awesome things about jail
1. They ask you if you have any enemies
2. You find out the guy that stole your camera 4 years ago is still being stupid with the law
3. You get an awesome photo of yourself
4. You get random texts afterward asking you if you got arrested.. yeah people check this stuff
5. You don't study for your test the next day because once you're out ya gotta relish freedom
6. Guy from #2 hits on you and stares at your butt
7. If you're pleasant enough you don't have to go in a cell
8. Bookies probably want to ask you to take a sobriety test because you are so goofy
9. When bookies actually believe you were headed to a church meeting.. guess peeps use that
10. You just laugh the whole time, and bookies agree that you probably shouldn't be there

This has to do with acting like myself.. I think logically i should have been a lot more i dunno.. terrified, but I just laughed. Humor is definitely my vice, and i just found it so ironic! Jail isn't that bad, but I don't plan on going again... ever! Just another experience to add to the pot i suppose! Yay life!!!